The short version
A legal wedding is registered by the local government and you receive an official marriage certificate. A symbolic wedding is a ceremony with no legal effect: lovely photos, no marriage. Many couples do the legal part at home (a courthouse or registry) and the symbolic ceremony abroad.
The legal act is usually done by a civil official: the Registro Civil in Mexico, a district office (Amphur) in Thailand, a town-hall official in Italy or Greece, a court or registrar on many Caribbean islands. A religious or resort ceremony alone is often not enough unless that officiant is licensed and the marriage is registered.
Symbolic only for visiting couples
The Maldives does not let foreign visitors legally marry. Resorts must hold a registration to run symbolic ceremonies, and rules introduced in 2010 carry a fine of Rf 1 million for resorts that break them.
Restricted: usually not possible for visitors
- France: one partner must have lived continuously for a month in the town (or have a parent living in France). Otherwise two foreigners can only marry in some overseas territories such as French Polynesia, New Caledonia, St Barth or St Martin.
- Spain: civil marriage applications go to the registry where at least one partner lives.
- UK / Scotland: possible, but non-British, non-Irish visitors need a Marriage Visitor visa (GBP 135) before arriving. You cannot give notice or marry on a Standard Visitor visa.
- Indonesia (Bali): marriage requires a religious ceremony and both partners must share a recognised religion; non-Muslim marriages are then registered with the civil registry.
Legal, but the ceremony you see isn't always the legal part
- Mexico: only marriages by the Civil Registry are legal; church ceremonies alone are not.
- Thailand: a legal marriage is registration at a district office (Amphur).
- Greece: the marriage must be registered within 40 days or it is not legal.
- Aruba follows Dutch law: only the civil registrar's marriage counts; a religious ceremony can follow.
Questions to ask your planner or resort
- Is this ceremony legal or symbolic?
- Who registers the marriage, and with which government office?
- Which certificate will we receive, and when?
- Can we get it apostilled before we fly home?
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